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Being The Best – What Does It Take?
As I read an article from a Continental Airlines Magazine (The Technovangelist, by Kevin Markey) about Philips Components which is the worlds largest supplier of drives, subassemblies and components for TV and is number one in LCD screens and...
Can't get you off my mind - or can I?
Love, or rather, the state of being in love, is sometimes too close to obsession, especially if it is unrequited, but also when, after a major break up, you find it hard to forget the past.
Off your mind some keys on how to forget your...
Just Say I Don't Know
From childhood we have been taught to explain our actions ("Why did you do that!?"). It was a bad lesson to learn, and it's time to un-learn it.
Why am I writing this? I don't know. I can give reasons, but I can't be...
The Yin and Yang of the Healthy Individual
The Chinese believe our bodies are complete halves, one side
being the passive and the other being the aggressive, and it
only through the successful union of the halves, that we have
the healthy whole.
Western medicine has so far, not...
Vision as a Metaphor
Why are our eyes called the windows to our souls? Why do we speak of the way that we "see" the world? Why do we say, "I see", in order to communicate that we understand? What is the understanding? What is the relationship between our vision, our...
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The Spirit of Sex
Vibrating to the Rhythm of Love
Has it ever occurred to you that your body is sacred? And that intercourse is a great ritual? The game of love is so profound that only very few dare to really play it. But the game is open, here and now.
The human body is a shrine, a sacred place, the place where the Universe
revels in its own beauty.
When sex is sacred, mind and body are integrated in celebration of life
itself, and the game of the lovers' energies is played.
When one finally discovers that the body is the soul's shrine, sexuality
becomes a great gate towards transcendental possibilities for pleasure. It
might not be open for everybody, but it is the only way for those who are willing to reach amazing peaks.
You and your partner can try some exercises and techniques to supplement your actual love-making
The Power of Truth
Words have a lot of spiritual power and make things happen in a
relationship, that's why it is important for the couple to try out the
following exercise. Take a seat opposite each other and make the questions
you need to clarify or carefully assess the way in which your sex and love is working for both of you. Feel grateful for every answer you get, because it is a way of opening up and better accept the other person's surrender.
These are possible questions you might want to ask
* What were you expecting of our relationship which we still haven't got?
* Do you feel I reach your heart when I caress you?
* Do you feel that whatever we do is geared towards our evolution?
* When we are together, pleasure is superb, but is there anything else you need?
The answers should be short, for instance:
* "What I've chipped into our relationship so far has been..."
* "I'd like our relationship to be more intimate..."
* "I need to feel more fulfilled and with you so far..."
Keep making the same question until all has been said on the issue. When you
finish, try to find those points in common and those which turned out to be
more important, moving, or surprising. If you put this exercise into
practice frequently, you will feel an inner communion with your partner.
© 2003 Mabel Iam. All Rights Reserved.
http://www.mabeliam.com
http://www.sexandtheperfectlover.com
About the Author
Mabel Iam is best known as a psychotherapist and expert in relationships, but she's also a favorite advisor to politicians and celebrities, and the author of several award-winning, best-selling books around the world, Mabel Iam has rapidly become the number one self-help expert in the US. Iam produces successful TV and radio shows and is a keen hostess.
Her books on sexuality, psychology, angels and psycho-astrology, are best sellers in diffe
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